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Wednesday, February 22, 2006

MJ's Most Famout Moves

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An Air Jordan XXI shoe commercial featuring the next generation's takes on Michael's greatest moves and poses. An excellent tribute to how great an actual player he was.


I wish I watched him when I was little, but I only started paying attention to basketball two years before his first comeback. He was something to see though.


Sunday, February 19, 2006

Top 5 things I look for in a girlfriend

So I've had a number of friends telling me that I should post an article on what I look for in a girl so I finally decided to write up something.  It's not easy thinking of the top five things that I want in a girl because I can think of TONS of things.  This list actually took me a while to finalize.

How did I make this list? Well at first I was just thinking of all the things that I liked in a girl, but that didn't work too well because I would then think of girls that I liked that didn't have the characteristics.  So then I started thinking of all the girls I've met so far and what I liked about them.  That wasn't easy because I had to really think back.  It was a slow process but it did get me to narrow the original list.

Does this mean that I won't date anyone until I find a girl with all these traits? No. Chemistry is important and just because a girl has everything on the list doesn't mean we'll have good chemistry together. Perhaps, I'll post another article someday on  the top five things I look for in a relationship.

5. Ambitious
     
  • A girl who has great desire or motivation in her life is like a never-ending story. In my experience, usually something has happened to them that made them ambitious. When they talk, their energy just pulls me in, like a magnet pulling on a metal object. They never run out of things to talk about and I never get tired of listening to them.

4. Idea of fun doesn't always involve money
     
  • A girl who loves to do things that doesn't ALWAYS involve money is a joy to me. It's not really because of the money; far from it really. It's just their attitude and what they think of as fun - that's the difference. If a girl only thinks about spending money as fun, then that's ALL she thinks of as fun. Seriously. Walking around the park and just sit and chat, or go flying a kite, or bicycling, or  cooking together will seem "boring." It's that attitude of just sticking to traditional ways of having fun (movies, shopping, etc) really turns me off. I mean there's so MANY things to do if you add in the non-traditional ways of having fun. There's only so much you can do with money (ex. shopping, movies, eating, etc) before it starts becoming repetitive. Of course, if I was a millionaire, then that might not apply here. But I'm not a millionaire. Once you've done everything that costs money, then you start thinking well... what can we do today? A girl that loves to do anything and everything and TRIES to have fun doing it is just wow.

3. Sense of humor
     
  • I love a girl who loves to laugh and smile. I'm a cheerful guy and I like a girl whose always cheerful too. It's such a dull experience when I hang out with a girl who doesn't smile or rarely laughs. I don't know what to say and I don't know how to act. I am really uncomfortable when I hang out with girls who are like this. Of course, if a girl happens to have a bad day and such, that's understandable. A girl who has a sense of humor will always make my day brighter.

2. Confident but modest
     
  • I gotta admit, a girl with confidence in herself is a BIG turn on. I love it when a girl is confident about herself and isn't easily swayed by others. A girl whose not afraid to talk in public, not afraid to be recognized,  not afraid to voice her opinions but at the same time remain modest is truly unique. These girls knowingly and unknowingly attract attention and their presence is well known when they enter a room. It's something that a boyfriend can proudly say, "Yes, she's my girlfriend." Again, modesty must complement this confidence or else I cannot stand confident and self centered girls.

1. Capable of taking care of herself
     
  • I'm not one of those guys that want to feel all mighty powerful and be in control of my girl.  No, I dont' want a girl who can't take care of things herself.  That is probably the biggest turn-off when the girl must always come to me to take care of stuff. I dont' mean that I don't want a girl to come talk to me if she has problems. It's always nice to have someone to talk to. That is one great thing about a friendship or relationship. But what I'm talking about is when she can't take care of herself. She can't be independent and must always depend on someone else to finish the task.. This characteristic is a must have in a bf/gf relationship. Without it, I will just get more and more frustrated over time.
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Monday, February 13, 2006

So I'm in my IDS110 class and an interesting topic was brought up, something which I never thought about before although totally capable of happening. With the rise of various uses of MP3's such as music and most notably the recent popularity of podcast, is it safe to assume that perhaps audio email will soon become popular and inevitably replace written emails? The thought of recording what you have to say rather than writing it all out seems really intriguing to me.

The other day, I received an email from my professor, but it wasn't just any email. Although he did write words in the email, he also recorded himself and attached it to the email. For me, this was the first time I received an audio email from someone and actually... I liked it! I liked the fact that I didn't have to read the LONG email which I would of had to do if he didn't record himself. I liked the fact that I could just sit back and listen and concentrate on what he was trying to say instead of concentrating on what I was trying to read. It was a total new and exciting experience for me.

Isn't it much easier to just record yourself and say what is on your mind rather than typing it all out? I know a lot of people, me for example, are just too lazy to write out everything that is on their mind. It's just so much trouble to type it all out! While some people can type faster than they can talk, most people can talk faster than they can type.

Isn't it much easier to express your thoughts and emotions rather than writing and finding the right words? Most people agree that one bad thing about written chat is that it can often lead to misunderstanding. This is usually the result of different interpretations of what is written.

Doesn't listening to the person's voice create this feeling of embodiment? Isn't it safe to say that listening to someone's voice feels more personal than reading a written chat or email?

Of course, I don't think this method will quickly catch on because changes to tradition usually happen slowly. Also, it is quite troublesome to record yourself and send it by email - only people who loves computers and technology would take the extra effort to find the audio recording software, record themselves, open email program, attach, and send. For everyday users who want simplicity, its just too much work. But perhaps one day it'll become easy and widespread enough that it's just one click, record, and automatically send to the recipient.

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Sunday, February 12, 2006

My own personal website

So i became really bored so I started my own personal website. Be sure to check out my site!